SERVICES

Pre-Marriage
Education
The purpose of pre-marriage education is to engage couples in the processes
of reflection and skills training with the aim of promoting and supporting
the development of strong and stable relationships. The research shows
that there is a window of opportunity during the year before the wedding
and the six months or so after when couples get the optimum benefit
from pre-marriage education. Later, under stress, negative habits and
relationship patterns may become established and be much harder to
resolve. Pre-marriage education is a supplementary approach to educating
engaged couples and newlyweds in the skills, habits, attitudes, and
enrichment techniques that research shows lead to happy, enduring marriages.

Marriage Enhancement
A vehicle will not run forever without periodic checks. Marriage
is the same. Marriage enhancement material is designed to do what
it implies; help marriages. Relationships like other living things
can flourish when cultivated in a good environment. Marriage Enhancement
attempts to give couples the skills required in order to make marriage work. It recognizes the need to strengthen and support
marriages to prevent breakdown. It does not attempt to give a formula
or blueprint for a perfect marriage. Marriage enhancement is important
in helping couples to continue to build their marriage, irrespective
of their own experience of marriage or relationship. We offer a
variety of Marriage Enhancement classes and workshops.

Conflict Management
Disagreement and conflict will arise in any relationship. It is
only natural. Yet, many couples try to ignore conflict, strive
for harmony at all costs, some stay rigidly polarized, some yell
and scream when issues surface; others are caught in a repetitive
cycle of fighting, others cry, blame, scapegoat, hit below the
belt, use derogatory labels, and some even resort to violence.
These behaviors are neither productive nor desirable, nor will
they resolve conflict. Studies indicate that effective conflict management
is one of the most important aspects contributing to a satisfying,
lasting relationship.

Communication
"We can not communicate." This statement is one of the most common complaints made by couples who are experiencing
difficulties
in their relationships. It is impossible not to communicate. Even
if a person doesn't say a word, he or she communicates through
facial expressions, body positions, gestures and mannerisms. When couples complain of a lack of communication, they usually are
complaining about ineffective communication. They are complaining
about misunderstandings. They don't understand what another person
is saying and feeling and the other person doesn't understand them.
In most cases, they don't need to communicate more. They need to
communicate more effectively. Effective communication is a key
to strengthening family relationships. |